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Your Free Guide: Small Steps into the B.E.C.O.M.E. Experience
For Quiet Trailblazers and Creative Navigators
Who March to Their Own Rhythm
What if your difference isn’t something to overcome—but your greatest gift?
You’ve spent years adapting to fit in—where do you even begin to be yourself? These 4 small steps will help you get ready to live as you.
For years, I felt like I had to shape-shift to fit in—constantly adapting, constantly exhausted. The idea of ‘just being myself’ felt impossible because I wasn’t even sure who that was. But then, I discovered a way to navigate the triggers and expectations that kept me masking, without feeling exposed or lost in the process. Now, I want to share those first, simple steps with you—so you can start feeling at home within yourself, too.
I created the B.E.C.O.M.E. Experience because I know how hard it is to unlearn years of adapting. This isn’t about ‘fixing’ yourself—it’s about understanding the patterns, signals, and emotions that influence your experience and learning how to move through the world in a way that feels right for you. My 6-week framework gently guides you into expressive self-trust, so you can finally belong to yourself—without fear or overwhelm.
From Someone Who's Walked This Path
I’m Ruth Brunner, author of the book “Uniquely You: For Quiet Trailblazers and Creative Navigators” and creator of Flow-Inspired Creations.
After years of feeling like a square peg in a round hole, I discovered that the path to belonging wasn’t about fixing myself or finding the right group—it was about connecting to the flow of my own creative truth.
As a counsellor working with creative navigators, and quiet trailblazers for over 25 years, together with my personal lived experience, I know this journey is never a straight line. But I also know this: You are not alone in it.
For decades, I’ve walked alongside creative navigators and quiet trailblazers, guiding them toward self-trust and creative expression. My approach weaves together professional expertise in counselling, a deep understanding of neurodivergent experiences, and a lifelong passion for flow-inspired creation. Through my work, I help others move beyond self-doubt and conditioned roles, offering gentle pathways into belonging—within themselves and the world around them.
"Uniquely You" - Reader Testimonial
“I especially loved the prologue written in prose. Ruth captures feelings so evocatively and honestly, creating a deeply touching and memorable opening.
Her book is a gift, offering us a variety of artistic forms to use as tools for healing and grounding. It’s something to turn to whenever life feels chaotic and overwhelming.”– Nadia R
 This is for you if you’re ready to begin reclaiming the quiet brilliance that’s always been yours.
This Free Guide Is Yours Whenever You're Ready to Begin
The free guide invites you to gently shift from ‘I don’t quite fit’ to reconnecting with your own creative rhythm.
🌱 In This Free Guide, You’ll Explore:
 ✅ A grounding practice to reconnect with your body and breathing—so you can begin from a place of calm, not pressure
✅ A gentle reflection to awaken your creative flow—no art skills needed, just a willingness to notice what lights you up
✅ A creative mask-making (or imagining) invitation—designed to help you explore how you’ve adapted to fit in, without judgment
✅ A simple anchoring practice to remember what’s true for you—even when the world feels overwhelming
✅ A brief introduction to the B.E.C.O.M.E. Experience—a 6-part path to expressive self-trust, creative ease, and belonging
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What Happens Next?
- You’ll receive the guide instantly downloadable in your inbox
- Over the next week, I’ll share a few additional insights to follow up on from these first steps.
- If it resonates, you’ll have the opportunity to join the 6-week B.E.C.O.M.E. Experience—but no pressure. The kit stands on its own as a complete and free offering.
A glimpse into The B.E.C.O.M.E. Experience
B
Break Free
Release what no longer defines you.
A new sense of possibility begins here.
E
Expand Your Mind
See your uniqueness as a gift.
Our thoughts can free us.
C
Create as You Are
Express without fear or pressure.
Creativity becomes a way of being.
O
Open into Belonging
Feel at home within yourself.
No more conforming.
M
Manifest Your Truth
Live in alignment with who you are.
Let your truth guide your next step.
E
Embody Your Freedom
Move through life with ease and self-trust.
Living in alignment with your truth.
